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A Bride’s Guide

17 Mar


Every bride wants to look perfect on her special day, and that takes a lot of hard work and preparation (or so I hear…)… I thought I’d be a big help for all those brides (and their bridal parties!) with a little bit of information you might find helpful!

Actually… I think any time anyone attends a wedding they want to look good. Weddings = Pictures. And now-a-days, pictures – the good, the bad, and the ugly – wind up on Facebook! So if you’re at the age where you will be attending lots of weddings in the near future (i.e. my age) you might want to take some notes…

Non-Invasive

Spray Tan

Spray tan’s typically last 7-14 days.  If your thinking of spraying (which I highly recommend), do it as close to your big day as possible!  You can’t shower for 6 hours after a spray, and you can smell a little bit sugary post-spray, so keep this in mind.  For the best results, spray the day before. As it wears off, it can sometimes look a little patchy. Make sure you exfoliate prior to your appointment (and shave).

Also, I hear there is a new spray out, that has glitter in it (OMG RIGHT!), but it’s only good for 24 hours I think? Maybe someone else knows more about this? I would also like to note here, that if you are not the bride, you should NOT be shining. That’s rude.


Facial

A plain old facial can be done anywhere from a few days to a month before a special date. Healthy skin is essential for a beautiful face. I recommend everyone see an aesthetician and purchasing some products that will keep your skin healthy.

Weddings are super stressful, and your skin responds to stress. Facials will keep break-outs at bay, not only by cleaning your skin, but by giving you some quality relaxation time. Spa days are great to do with your friends, mother, and future mother in law!


*Note: if you are planning on doing Botox or fillers, a facial should be done either immediately before or 5 days after any facial treatments.

Chemical Peel

Degree of peeling can vary, so talk to the aesthetician performing your peel and be CLEAR if you have any wedding events (or any events for that matter) that you don’t want to be shedding for. ‘Tis the Season for Chemical Peels!.  For a real good, deep peel, expect about a week to two of down time. Trust me, it’s worth it.

Very Important:  moisturize often with a pharmaceutical or cosmeceutical grade product after a peel.  Many places have post-treatment kits.  Do NOT pick at your skin!  Stay out of the sun! Do not use Retin-A prior to or post treatment for about 7 days.

Waxing

Waxing your brows or lip shouldn’t be done the day of an event.  The process can irritate your skin, leaving it a little red.  Icing the area helps.  Or an anti-inflammatory like ibuprofen.  Make sure to keep the area clean to keep bacteria out of your pores, and causing break outs.

Microdermabrasion.

Often done during the same time as a facial, and can cause some minor redness.  Protect your skin after this treatment. Again, stay out of the sun, and do not use Retin-A prior to or post treatment for 7 days.

Laser Skin Rejuvenation Treatments

Depending on the laser, and the treatment, there can be some downtime with this (discoloration and flaking), anywhere from a day to a week.  Ask your practitioner what to expect with the treatment you are receiving.  These treatments really make your skin look great!  Never heard of laser skin rejuvenation?  There will be blog posts to come!

Teeth Whitening

It depends on the number of treatments you will need to decide when you should start. Some treatments take a few sessions, some are one and done. Go for a consult. At the very least, do the Crest White Strips.

Long Lashes

A lot of brides ask me about eye-lash extensions. Although a little expensive, they look great for a wedding.  They should be done about a week before your big event.  They take some getting used to! Lovely Lashes!. They also don’t last very long… usually about a month, so don’t do them too soon unless you are going to keep up on them. If you are having your make-up professionally done, the make-up artist will probably offer you some sort of fake-eyelash. If you are doing your own make-up and you want that lashed out look, practice a few times before the big day. I am a master of the strip lash… but it took me about a year to perfect my technique!

Minimally Invasive Procedures

These can be tricky to time.  If you are planning on doing any non-invasive procedures, they should be done either immediately before Botox and Fillers, or 5 days after.  This is because you don’t want Botox to travel into the wrong muscle group, or fillers to be moved into the wrong area.  Use good judgment with timing your treatments!

A lot of women do Botox and fillers before a big wedding!

Check out this article: http://www.nytimes.com/2008/07/24/fashion/24skin.html?pagewanted=all


(I’m the bridesmaid all the way to the left. I would like to add a disclaimer: The bride here is naturally beautiful. And has not let me tempt her into Botox—yet).

Botox

If you are new to Botox, I suggest trying it out 4-6 months prior to the wedding date for a couple of reasons. First, this way you can decide if you like it (which you will, but I still recommend trying it). Second, Botox is a dose dependant medication (your results depend on how large or small a dose you receive). Six months gives you plenty of time to work out with your injector the perfect dose for you! Last, you will not be able to look angry for 3-6 months. This might be helpful to any Bridezilla’s out there. So, when you are in witch mode, at least you won’t look like it. J

If you don’t have six months to do a trial run, if you are a Botox Pro, or if you just want to go for it, you should have your treatment AT LEAST 1 month prior to the big day, and NO MORE than 2 months prior. Anything more than 2 months, it might start wearing off, anything less than a month you might not have the result you desire.

Another interesting use of Botox with Brides: It is becoming popular to be treated for hyperhydrosis (sweating) in the underarm. I recommend this to brides who will be getting married outside in 100 degree weather. Sweating profusely is pretty gross. You’re already going to be nervous, and when you add your layers of dress (which I’m sure is not air conditioned), and all the dancing you’re going to do… might be a good idea. Plus, you didn’t spend all that money on a dress to have pit-stains on it. This procedure requires a pretty big dose of Botox, and is therefore pretty expensive. It’s not for every bride.


(Remember don’t go overboard either!)

Fillers (Radiesse, Juvéderm… Perlene, Restyline, ect. ect.)

Depending on the area of injection, there can be some minor bruising (or major depending on the injector).  Invest in some Arnica cream, and expect the worst (2 weeks).  Cheek augmentation bruises the least, while lip augmentation and nasal labial folds tend to bruise the most.  Gosh, I hate it when I have dental work 😉 The average bruise lasts a few days.

Usually older brides are doing facial fillers, while younger brides might want to plump their lips.

As for the rest of the wedding participants, the mothers of the bride and groom are usually also very interested in fillers (and Botox). After all, they have been looking forward to this day since the days BEFORE their children gave them premature wrinkles. Whether she is interested in a facial or Botox treatment, moms deserve to be asked “is this your sister?”

Things to Do 6 Months or More before a Wedding (or wait until after):

–  Bioenhancers like Sculptra Aesthetic (it can take up to 6 weeks to see a difference)

–  Plastic Surgery. Remember that crazy reality show on TV that brides were competing with each other trying to win plastic surgery procedures so they could be perfect for their big day? Those women were … appalling. Plastic surgery should never be taken lightly. Or have a competitive reality show. Leave competitive reality to “Survivor!”

–  Changing your hair color or cutting it short (stick to what you know looks good on you!)

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A Note From Skipper

26 Jan

Skipper and Barbie going to Iceskate at Frog Pond

In response to my post Hey, You Look Just Like Me!, in which I reference my friend/coworker/client Devan (whom I have dubbed Skipper), sent a reply that I felt would be better as it’s own post.  Here was her reply, which starts with an exerpt from the original post:     

“Devan (the girl I live with on the North Shore 2 days a week), turned to me the other day and said, “we look like sisters.”  Well… we certainly did not start out that way.  I’m Boston Bred and Russian/Polish by descent.  She’s from Virginia and sports some very fair skin (more Western European).  Several spray tans, a couple of boxes of Juvederm, some cheek augmentation, and a splash of bleach later… and we look like sisters.  Either she’s blind… or we both have the same idea of beauty.”

Laura,

I would have to agree on this post. Not only am I thrilled that you have involved me in your blog lol I figured I definitely need to give my opinion on this. We obviously have some similar features due to augmentations but our idea of beauty is the same. I was 19 years old the first time I got my lips injected with Juvederm, many of my clients ask me “Why? You are so young, why would you start so early” I always respond with:

 1. “I am in the industry.” How can you possibly promote a product when you physically have not used it and do not believe in it? You can’t and that is false adverstising as far as I am concerned. Don’t knock it till you try it.

2. “My top lip was half the size as my bottom and it was something that bothered me.” When I had the option to alter my look just a little bit to (1) please myself and (2) make me look better I thought why the heck not?

I would have to say that Juvederm is one of the best products out there on the

My Bathroom Shelf

market today (props to the amazing pharameceutical company Allergan- the makers of Botox, Juvederm and Vivite- a glycolic based skincare line).  I have had clients complain about restalyn (especially regaurding cost and duration of result) but never once heard a complaint against Juvederm.

If you can take something that concerns you and change it just a tiny bit to enhance it to the point where many people would say “you look awesome, what are you doing different?” But not actually pin point what it is you have had done. WHY WOULDN’T YOU DO IT? It isn’t harmful, so for me it is a no-brainer.

At the end of the day, it is hard to stay on top of things in the beauty industry, but how can you be a good esthetician, hairdresser, cosmetologist, nurse injector, etc. if you do not strive to use the best products and promote beauty within yourself and most importantly to YOUR CLIENTS.  That’s why I don’t trust Dermatoligists or General Practice MD’s with my injections.  Just because you have the title MD does NOT make you an expert in beauty!

In closing, a little spray tan, Juvederm, Radiesse or blonde hair never hurt anyone!

Representing Boston Beauty and Boston Sports!

P. S- I don’t think you’ve been spending too much time with me. It is awesome to have such a wonderful friendship with someone who strives to be the best at what they do, just like myself, and who also has an amazing concept on what is beauty.

WE ARE BEAU-TIFUL AND FOREVER YOUNG.

Thank you BOTOX and Laura for making BOSTON BEAUTIFUL!

-Devan Ritchie, L.M.E

Go Platinum Salon and Spa

200 Lake Street, Peabody, MA

978-535-8575

Pucker-Up, Princess – Damn Sexy Lips

7 Jan

Joy in one’s heart and some laughter on one’s lips is a sign that the person down deep has a pretty good grasp of life.

Or a good grasp of what Juvéderm is. (That’s NOT Botox.)

Juvedérm is a hyaluronic acid that is injected into the lip to make it fuller.  It is also used in deep “1” lines in between the eyebrows and sometimes in the cheeks and naso-labial folds.  It’s a sugar your body naturally produces.  You don’t need allergy testing with this product.

It can be natural looking.  

There are two techniques for augmenting the natural lip.  A lot of women want/need volume.  As you age, your lip naturally beings to thin out.  Physical Facial Changes That Occur As We Age.  In order to restore the volume, the product must be placed in the wet/dry border (where your lip goes from wet to dry).

* The Black Dashes represent where product is put.  The Red X’s represent needle insertion points.  They are a representation.  You might have more insertions if you have asymmetry, or less if you are trying to achieve several changes at the same insertion point.    
**Remember when looking at the pictures I’m not a graphic designer.  I’m a nurse.  And I’m pretty proud of my skills in the program Paint and my Pout.  God, I love alliteration!   

The full length of the needle is inserted into the border of the lip.  Yes.  It sounds like it hurts, but a topical numbing  cream should be applied 15-30 minutes prior to the procedure.  A lot of places will cheap out on this.  The stuff is expensive.  Trust me you want it.  Even if the product being used has a numbing agent in it (like Juvéderm XC – the XC stands for xylocaine, which is in the lidocaine family).  Plan on being numb from 1-4 hours.

If you have a low pain tolerance, request having a dental block.  This the procedure you have before you have dental work done.  The nerves are blocked with a pain killer, and you don’t feel anyyyyything.  Don’t drink or eat for 4 hours after a block.  I rarely do blocks, because I’m so good with a needle.  But natural redheads and light blondes are usually more sensitive to pain.  I usually recommend them for these Fitzpatrick I and II’s!

The Duck Look

I like my lips ducky.  Other people who like the duck look:  models, 21 year-old’s, bartenders, strippers… you get the point.  People who need to look sexy.  (You can WANT to look sexy and any age and any profession though!!!)  This look is achieved by inserting the length of the needle into the lip line, otherwise known as the vermillion border.  The volume there curls up the line.  Again, it should be numb so it won’t hurt as much.

Mouth Corners

Gravity turns down the corners of your mouth making you look a little frown-y as you age.  By inserting the needle at the lower lip and curving it around the lip’s corner, the lip turns more upward, getting rid of that frown.  A nice smile is attractive.  A frown is not.  This can be a little painful even with numbing cream, because of the location of nerve endings.

Columns

The Philtrum Columns are the two lines that come from your nose to your cupids bow.  They flatten as you age, so by recreating them, you look YEARS younger.   It pulls up the “Cupid’s Bow” area, which also becomes flatter as you age.  I’m not going to lie.  This hurts.  A lot.  There are a ton of nerve endings that come out of your nose and it’s very difficult to block them.  Expect there to be tears.  In this case, the tears are worth it though.  It lasts a good year or more.  And although I haven’t gone through child birth, it can’t possibly be as painful.   

The Pout

I am fully aware not everyone likes the Trout Pout (a term my friend Lauren gave me – http://www.shapeupwithLauren.com).  It’s another look I really like though.  Depending on how your natural lip is pre-injection, the product is deposited along the wet/dry border and/or the vermillion border.  I usually like to do both to make it extra pouty.

Proportions.

Proportion: The Rule of Thirds and Fifths and what should it be when it comes to  your lips?  The natural lip is 1/3 volume top lip and 2/3 volume bottom lip.  I see this isn’t necessarily true with darker Fitzpatrick types (V and VI).

Balance.

Many women who have larger noses and big eyes don’t need a nose job.  We need balance.  I naturally have huge eyes and a large nose.  By augmenting my lips, I’ve found some peace with my face.  I look proportional and balanced.  I have tons of clients who feel this way.  Lip Aug is way cheaper than a nose job!

Symmetry

You can use lip augmentation to fix a-symmetry.  Don’t expect it to be PERFECT though.  We all have a little a-symmetry with our face.  If you look at my lips, they aren’t perfectly symmetrical.  But, if you had your lips done, and your friends point stuff out without you telling them, go back to the practitioner.  If it’s real bad, they should fix it free of cost.  If it’s not noticeable, they’ll re-assure you that you’re crazy and you might have Body Dysmorphic Disorder.  It takes about 2 weeks for swelling to go down completely (even if you don’t see it, the inflammatory process is still in gear), therefore, wait two weeks before going back.

Pearls of Wisdom:

  • Expect that you might bruise.  Everyone bruises differently.  If you are anemic (which many of us are during menstruation) or very fair skinned (Fitzpatrick I and II) I highly recommend buying Arnica cream and Bare Essentials makes a purple tinted gloss that works wonders, called Starr.
  • Because you might bruise, don’t do your lips the day/week before a family get-together or a big party.  Questions will be asked.  That dentist was such a witch.  Wink wink.
  • You will be swollen.  Anytime you puncture or traumatize the tissue your body responds with inflammation.  ICE.  20 minutes on 20 minutes off.  The more you ice, the less you swell.
  • The next day, you will look a little more swollen, and your lips will feel very dry.  That is because hyaluronic acid attracts water molecules and you are still swollen from the injection.  Keep icing and applying a hydrating product to your lips.  I like Image’s Ormedic Balancing Lip Complex.  Pharmaceutical grade repair!  A lot of people like Burt’s Bees too.
  • Juvéderm Ultra Plus XC is the best product for your lips.  It lasts 1 year + in most people, unlike Restyline, which lasts about 6 months or less.  Juvéderm Ultra isn’t as plumping because it’s not as concentrated with hyaluronic acid (although it is cheaper – so make sure your practitioner is using Ultra PLUS).

In Conclusion.

It’s ok to be sexy!  This isn’t 1820.  The Feminist Movement doesn’t restrict you to Intellectual Sexiness.  You can be pretty AND smart.  I am (and modest)!   Let’s face it ladies… men like tits and ass.  But they also like what I’ll refer to as DSL (Damn Sexy Lips… or if you want to be crass—D*ck Sucking Lips).  More importantly, it will make YOU feel sexy.  In case you don’t remember why I love my lip augmentation, you can read about it in The Halo Effect.  You want your husband/boyfriend to pay for this?  You mention this part.  “Imagine the Possibilities.” 

My Before…

People always request pictures of how I looked before.  I have a few of my photo’s from when I was in my early 20’s (that don’t have Pabst Blue Ribbon in them).  As you can see I had a nice lip line to begin with.  Symmetrical.  Nice Shape.  Full.  21 (ish).  The top is pretty flat, and thins a lot when I smile.  To me, my face looks out of proportion: big eyes, big nose… small lips… over tweezed eyebrows (hey, I didn’t always have such perfect style!)  I’d like to thank my dog, Nila, for posing.  Pitbull Love.

…After

From Girl-Next-Door to Diva.  See how my nose looks more balanced?

                                   If that face doesn’t scream “I

                               need Botox”  I don’t know what

                                 does!

For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone. 

Audrey Hepburn

Hey, You Look Just Like Me!

25 Dec

Let’s Face it (a little pun for you!), the generic face is not attractive.  Beauty should be individualized.  It includes style and personality.  That’s what sets you apart from being just “another pretty face.” Beauty Defined.

Devan (the girl I live with on the North Shore 2 days a week), turned to me the other day and said, “we look like sisters.”  Well… we certainly did not start out that way.  I’m Boston Bred and Russian/Polish by descent.  She’s from Virginia and sports some very fair skin (more Eastern European).  Several spray tans, a couple of boxes of Juvederm, some cheek augmentation, and a splash of bleach later… and we look like sisters.  Either she’s blind… or we both have the same idea of beauty.

One thing that certainly sets us apart is our noses.  I’m of Jewish descent, and my nose isn’t small.  But it does fit my face.  And I would never change it!  I like classic beauty, and looking youthful… but generic is one thing I could NEVER be on the inside, and my idea of beauty will NEVER reflect that on the outside.

Do I love my nose? Eh.  But it’s me.  I feel like a lot of women complain about their noses.  This is usually because it throws off the balance of someone’s face if it’s not in symmetry or proportion to other features (Proportion: The Rule of Thirds and Fifths).

If it’s broke, let’s fix it, and if it’s not broke… Let’s fix it!

Aside from correcting breathing problems, I rarely recommend rhinoplasty (nnnnnoseeee jobs).  I have seen so many bad nose jobs.  A lot of surgeon’s just have this generic nose that they put on every face… and then your stuck with it.  Like tattooing your eyeliner… it’s forever.  And it’s maximally invasive!  And super expensive!

If only there were some alternatives…………

Oh, but there are!  Depending on what your issues are, there are several less invasive and cheaper options for you to change your nose to be more aesthetically fitting to your face.

Contour with Make-up (cost < $100)

Check out this site.  I think it shows a pretty good tutorial on contouring.  Also, check out YouTube!

http://makeupforlife.net/2011/07/makeup-tutorial-how-to-contour-your-nose.html

For a special event, or a night out, contouring is a cheap, easy way to make your nose appear more aesthetically pleasing.

Lip Augmentation (cost $700)

I have a few clients who have large eyes, large noses, and a wide face… with small lips.  This makes the face look unbalanced and makes the nose look bigger.  By correcting the volume/size of the mouth, the face is put more into proportion.  I have found lip augmentation to balance my facial features, and I am very happy with this option.  My nose is symmetrical, straight, and I have no trouble breathing (i.e. a deviated septum).  Remember, augmentation DOESN’T mean you will look like a duck.  Discuss with your Nurse or Doctor what you find attractive.  (I’ll have to take pics of this. Inbox me if you feel like this would be good for you!)

Liquid Nose Job ($700+)

I have been recommending this to a lot of people lately.   This minimally invasive technique is performed using Botox and Fillers to correct any parts of the nose which are a-symmetric, can raise the tip of the nose, and fix some crooked features.

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Non Surgical Nasal Augmentation

Nothing Replaces… Traditional Plastic Surgery ($$$)

If you have a deviated septum, and have difficulty breathing, or if you have a bump that really needs to be shaved… this might be the best option for you.  If you decide to go under the knife, I have a few suggestions.

Tip #1 : Ask to see LOTS of before and afters. 

It’s hard to get clients to agree to be a “before and after” example when it comes to your nose… because you really need to show the whole face.  And we all want to be “naturally” beautiful.  But your Board Certified PLASTIC Surgeon (see tip below).  A lot of surgeon’s will have a signature style.  If you see all the noses look EXACTLY the same RUN.  You don’t want to look like Michael Jackson.  A generic nose is NOT attractive.  Sometimes the signature style will be shaving too much off the bridge, or making the tip turned up (i.e. the Prince of Pop).  Look very closely at the pics, and if you do see something that resembles a personal “style” of the surgeon, think to yourself: does this fit my face?  my style?

Tip #2: Certifications

Never, ever, ever ever ever see a general surgeon for a plastic procedure.  They are NOT even remotely qualified.  Do you want someone who wears a bow-tie, can’t dress themselves, and doesn’t know the first thing about make-up to be working on your FACE?  Well… when I put it that way, I hope you say no.

Look into what those letters stand for.  Anyone can throw a bunch of letters on a page and make themselves look qualified.  I’m a Latisse Lash Expert (brush my shoulder off!) – this took me twenty minutes of watching a tutorial (ok, I fast-forwarded the whole thing and just took the quiz at the end).  But it sounds cool, doesn’t it!?!

Tip #3: Don’t Cheap Out

Dr. A will do a nose job for $2,500 and Dr. B will do it for $10,000.  Financially, seems like a no-brainer.  Realistically, Dr. A is probably not a Board Certified Plastic Surgeon (or a Doctor at all for that matter) and your procedure will be done in a basement under local anesthesia smuggled in from Brazil. And please stay out of Brazil.  When you get your surgery botched (which you will) insurance will not fix it.

If you’re going to opt for surgery, let’s be real.  It’s expensive.  It lasts forever.  In this case, it’s your FACE.  Real Surgeon’s know what they’re worth and they are NOT cheap.

In the same respect, if the price is outrageous… you’re a sucker.  Which leads us to Tip 4.

Tip #4: STAY AWAY FROM NEWBURY STREET

You’ll be overcharged for a generic “masterpiece.”  Actually, stay off of Newbury for any type of beauty service.  I’ve heard more horror stories from that street than ANYWHERE.  (I will name no names).  Even for hair… I’m not impressed.  And fashion… Charles Street Hands Down!  (I digress).

Tip #5:  Have a consultation.  Ask the right questions.

Check out this post if you’re Thinking about a NoseJob/Breast Aug/Lipo/Tummy Tuck? … Butt Implants?.

There are always alternatives, and remember to always put safety first!

Happy Holidays Y’All

I think I’ve been hanging out with Devan too much!
 

The Halo Effect

19 Oct

The idea in psychology/sociology that attractive people are seen as angelic and are therefore stereotyped with having angelic qualities and treated with positive enforcement of these “qualities.”

Studies have shown that attractive people achieve more in life, are generally happier, and have more self-confidence.

Quick Personal Story

About 2 years ago, I was dating this really good looking, smart guy and I really liked him.  And I let him treat me… not so nice.  On July 4th, after not returning multiple phone calls, I was out with my friends downtown, when we ran into each other.  Essentially he broke up with me on a pole outside of Dillon’s (a bar).  With glitter on his face.  Probably from making out with some girl.  His response:  “I was going to break up with you on Monday.”  Devastation.

Fast Forward 9 months.    I run into this boy again.  This time I have just had my lips done.  He kindly bought me drinks all night, and at the end of the night I said thank you, and good bye.

Did he feel bad?  Was it because I was hot?  Who knows, and who cares.  The fact of the matter was, I felt hot.  And confident.  AND best of all, I felt retribution for the way I was treated by this boy less than a year prior.

The Attractiveness Co-Effecient

Did I treat him better because he was good looking?  Probably.  Did he treat me better when I was better looking?  Definitely.  Was there some self-fulfilling prophecy factor involved?  Probably.  But like I said, I feel justified and that’s what counts.  We’re on a semi-friendship level to this day.

Beauty is not always advantageous though.  I have many experience where I’ve been perceived as mean, stupid, materialistic (ok this one is kind of true), and vain.  I have had people question my expertise and my skills in both medicine and business.  It is a difficult experience for me, as I have always excelled academically and am constantly reading and researching topics that inspire me.  I can only take these experience and use them to make me better as a person, and in my field of work.

The Hairdresser Effect

If the Halo Effect is the idea that good looking people are treated differently day to day, I would like to introduce my theory of the Hairdresser Effect.  When you look good, you feel good, and you reflect this confidence to others.  Every woman’s favorite place is the beauty salon.  FACT.  Why?  Because when you leave, you are at the height of feeling attractrive.  My hairdresser is the first person I go to when I’m sad (I would like to credit Lauren Cence, of Sylvestre Franc–thank you for making me the best blonde I can be! … and for all the free therapy sessions).  I aspire to have this effect on people, to bring physical beauty to aide a person to have the confidence to be themselves.  And be HAPPY with who they are.

Bottom Line

The bottom line here, beauty matters.  It effects how we feel about ourselves and how other treat us.  Whether it is self-fulfilling, whether it’s this Halo Effect, whether it’s right or wrong.  It doesn’t matter.  What matters is how YOU feel about yourself.  Striving for physical attractiveness is not a vain endeavor, but an expression of confidence and reflection of inner beauty.  Being attractive will lead you into a happier more successful life.

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